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Refiner's Fire | Week 8 | Bill Bush · Rewind

Rock Point Church

Pastor Bill Bush · Jul 25, 2021 · 75 min watch · 3 min read

Refiner's Fire | Week 8 | Bill Bush

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Big Idea
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Scripture in this message

1 Peter 4
1 Peter 4:2
1 Peter 4:3
1 Peter 4:4
1 Peter 4:5
1 Peter 4:6

Big Idea Key points Application

Big Idea

When life starts to skid, arm yourself with the attitude of Christ and turn into the skid — live by faith, not feelings, and be the church, not just attend it.

Drawing from 1 Peter 4:1–19, Pastor Bill Bush argues that following Christ in a suffering world requires two deeply counterintuitive responses: living by faith rather than feelings, and being an active, serving member of the church community rather than a passive consumer. Just as turning into a skid is the only way to regain traction on an icy road, adopting Christ's attitude — choosing God's will over personal comfort, loving the church community deeply, and deploying your spiritual gifts in service — is the only way to gain real spiritual traction and experience the life God designed for you.

Key points

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1Arm yourself with the attitude of Christ and be willing to suffer for doing right — this is how you fight life's skid and regain traction.
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2Live by faith, not feelings — pursue God's will rather than chasing your own desires, even when obedience is counterintuitive.
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3Expect former friends and family to push back when your life begins to reflect Christ; you will become a mirror, and some won't like what they see.
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4Keep an eternal perspective — those who mock your faith will face God's judgment, so fear God more than you fear people's opinions.
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5Pray with clarity and discipline, with the end in mind, asking God for the courage to turn into the skid rather than treating prayer as a wish list.
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6Most important of all: show deep, stretched-out love for one another in the church community — love that covers a multitude of sins and refuses to isolate.
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7Every believer has a spiritual gift; use it to serve the church — coming to serve, not just to be served, is essential to experiencing the life God intended.

to turn into the skid and do that and not pet is is opposite of everything your body tells you to do

A story from life

Pastor Bill recounts a car skid in the mountains of California with a friend, ending in a snowbank

A story from life

Pastor Bill describes hitting black ice alone on a mountain road and discovering how hard it is to do what you know you should

Application

Pastor Bill frames the takeaway around two concrete decisions every believer must make, especially when life feels out of control. First, stop letting feelings steer — get into God's Word, pray about what He's actually calling you toward, and choose His will even when it feels like turning toward the pain. Second, stop going to church and start being the church: find your circle of real community, discover your spiritual gift, and show up to serve. These aren't suggestions — Peter calls deep love and active service 'most important of all.' Practically, that means joining a small group, taking a spiritual gifts assessment, and signing up to serve. As Pastor Bill put it, this is what God wants for you, not from you — and it is the only path to the traction, joy, and peace you were created to experience.

Take it into your week

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Scripture in this message

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“So what are we talking about? We're in first Peter chapter four, and I wanna read the first verse here first. It says this, so then since Christ suffered physical pain”
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“And so let's look at verse two. You won't spend the rest of your life chasing your own desires. Don't run after the feelings. He goes, but you will be anxious to do the will of God”
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“And when you do that, verse three, you've had enough in the past of evil things that godless people enjoy, their immorality and lust, their feasting and drunkenness, wild parties, and their terrible worship of idols”
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“And he says and look what he goes on to say though next. He goes and here's where it could start to hurt. This is where the feelings come. Verse four, of course, your former friends are surprised when you no longer plunge into the flood of wild and destructive things they do, so they slander you”
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“But then verse five, look what he goes on to say about this idea of of living by faith, not feelings, especially when it comes to our relationships. Because it goes, but remember this. Remember that they will have to face God who stands ready to judge everyone, both the living and the dead”
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“Because look what he says next. Said, because you know you have this hope, because he says in verse six, that is why the good news was preached to those who are now dead”
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“But here's he says here in verse seven, here's the weapon we have. The end of the world is coming soon, which is interesting. This is why everyone says, why don't you preach the end of world”
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“Because look look what he says in verse eight. Where is it? There. Most important of all. Okay. I'm no linguistic expert, But if you say most important of all, what does that”
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“Continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins. So he's gonna explain what that looks like, but he says continue to show a deep love for now he's talking to us as the church”
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“and you have to do that up close because verse nine says, cheerfully share your home with those who are in need a meal or a place to stay. So share your resources, share your time, share your life”
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“And how that community looks as he says in verse 10, God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Each of you. So if you know Christ, does that include you”
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“He says, he's given you these gifts. Use them well to serve one another. Verse 11. Do you have the gift of speaking? Then speak as though God himself were speaking through you. That's the gift he gave me”
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“The next verse, 12 through 19, goes on to reiterate this idea. He says, first of all, don't be surprised when it's hard. Don't see purpose surprise. Every challenge you have, every thought in your head on why you can't do this”
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“And then finally, he says in verse 19, he says this, so if you're suffering in a manner that pleases God wow. That's a scary phrase. If you are a helicopter parent that won't let your kids suffer through anything, you hate this verse”

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Pastor Bill opened with a vivid image: when your car hits ice, every instinct screams to steer away from the skid — but that instinct will send you spinning. The only way to regain control is to turn into it. It's counterintuitive, even terrifying, but it works. Peter opens chapter four with the same kind of counterintuitive call: arm yourself with the attitude of Christ, who chose suffering over self-preservation. That word 'arm' is deliberate. It's not a passive posture — it's preparation for a fight. The fight Peter has in mind isn't against other people or even difficult circumstances. It's the internal battle between what feels safe and what is actually true. Christ didn't drift into suffering accidentally. He chose God's will, fully aware of the cost. Pastor Bill's point is that this attitude — this willingness to turn toward the pain rather than away from it — is the entry point to real spiritual traction. It doesn't mean seeking hardship for its own sake. It means refusing to let discomfort be the deciding factor in your obedience. When life feels out of control, the first question worth sitting with is not 'how do I make this stop?' but 'what is God actually calling me toward right now?'

For reflection

Where in your life right now are you instinctively steering away from something God may be calling you toward?

Pray

Pray for the courage to adopt Christ's attitude toward whatever feels most uncomfortable in your life today.

There's a quiet revolution buried in this single verse. Peter says that the person who has armed themselves with Christ's attitude will spend the rest of their earthly life 'controlled by God's desires rather than human desires.' That's the whole shift in one sentence — and it's far easier to affirm than to actually live. Feelings are not bad. They are real, and God gave them to us. But feelings make unreliable navigators, especially when life is hard. Anxiety says 'protect yourself.' Loneliness says 'withdraw.' Hurt says 'retaliate.' If we let those feelings steer, we end up further from the life God designed for us, not closer to it. Pastor Bill's challenge was pointed: stop letting your feelings be the loudest voice in the room. Get into God's Word. Pray about what He is actually calling you toward. Then choose His will — not because it feels right, but because it is right. This is what living by faith looks like in ordinary, unglamorous moments. It's choosing to open your Bible when you don't feel like it. It's choosing to serve when you're tired. It's choosing to forgive when you're still hurt. None of that is natural. All of it is possible with the Spirit's help.

For reflection

What is one area where your feelings have been steering your decisions more than God's Word has?

Pray

Pray for the Holy Spirit's help to recognize the difference between what you feel and what God is calling you toward.

Peter doesn't soften this: when your life begins to genuinely reflect Christ, some people in your world will not celebrate it. They may be confused. They may be critical. They may pull away. Pastor Bill described it plainly — you become a mirror, and not everyone is comfortable with what a changed life reflects back to them. This is not a reason to be defensive or superior about your faith. It's actually a reason for compassion. The people who push back are often the people who sense, at some level, that something real is happening in you — and it unsettles what they've built their own lives around. Peter names this dynamic honestly so that when it happens, you aren't caught off guard or tempted to water down your faith just to restore the peace. The pressure to drift back toward old patterns is real, and it often comes wearing familiar faces. What Peter offers here isn't a strategy for winning arguments. It's a steady-eyed acknowledgment that following Christ will cost something socially, and that cost is worth it. You don't need to announce your faith loudly or manage others' reactions. You simply need to keep living the life you've been called to, faithfully and without apology.

For reflection

Have you experienced pushback from someone close to you since your life began to change? How did you respond?

Pray

Pray for compassion toward people in your life who seem unsettled by your faith, and for the steadiness to keep living it out.

One of the quietest forms of spiritual pressure is the fear of other people's opinions. We trim our words, soften our convictions, and edit our lives to avoid judgment. Peter cuts straight through that: the people whose opinions we fear will themselves stand before God. That's not a threat to wield — it's a perspective to hold. When you keep an eternal frame around temporary opinions, it changes what you're afraid of. Pastor Bill put it directly: fear God more than you fear what people think of you. That sounds simple, but for many of us, the opinion of a parent, a friend, or a coworker has far more day-to-day weight than the reality of God's judgment. The gospel Peter is preaching here was announced even to the dead — which is Peter's way of saying this message reaches further and lasts longer than any social consequence you'll face for following it. The person who laughed at your faith, the colleague who rolled their eyes, the family member who called you different — none of their verdicts are final. God's is. That's not arrogance. It's the kind of settled confidence that frees you to live without constantly managing what others think. It loosens the grip that approval has on your choices.

For reflection

Whose opinion currently has the most power to change how you live your faith? What would it look like to fear God more than that person's judgment?

Pray

Pray for a renewed sense of God's eternal perspective to loosen the hold that others' opinions have on your daily choices.

Peter anchors his call to prayer in a striking phrase: 'the end of the world is coming soon.' That's not meant to produce panic — it's meant to produce clarity. When you know what matters most and what doesn't, you can pray differently. Pastor Bill described this as praying with the end in mind — not presenting God with a wish list, but asking for the courage to turn into the skid, to choose His will even when it's hard. That kind of prayer requires a clear head and a disciplined heart. It means coming to God with honest questions rather than just requests for relief. It means asking what He wants from this season, not just what you want out of it. The discipline Peter calls for here isn't joyless. It's the kind of focus that comes when you've stopped pretending that comfort is the goal. Prayer becomes less about managing your circumstances and more about staying connected to the One who holds them. If your prayer life has felt flat or mechanical lately, it may be worth asking whether you've been treating it as a transaction. Peter's vision of prayer is more like a soldier's briefing before battle — honest, clear-eyed, and pointed directly at what actually matters.

For reflection

What would change about how you pray if you consistently prayed with God's will as the goal rather than your own comfort?

Pray

Pray for clarity and discipline in your prayer life — that it would become a place of honest seeking rather than a list of requests.

Peter calls deep, stretched-out love for one another 'most important of all' — and that phrase should stop us in our tracks. Not most important among several options. Most important of all. Pastor Bill pointed out that the word Peter uses for this kind of love describes something intense and sustained, like a muscle under strain. It is not the easy warmth you feel toward people who are easy to love. It's the kind of love that covers sins — that sees the worst in someone and chooses to stay rather than pull away. That love does not ignore real hurt or pretend conflict doesn't exist. It simply refuses to let offense be the last word. And it refuses to isolate. The instruction in verse nine to show hospitality 'without complaining' is Peter's way of saying: real community is inconvenient, and it's worth it anyway. In a culture that has made it easier than ever to stay at a safe, curated distance from other people, this is a direct challenge. You were not designed to follow Christ alone. The life God intended for you is not a solo journey. It runs through real relationships with real people who are imperfect and sometimes difficult — and who, by God's grace, are also the people through whom He does some of His best work in you.

For reflection

Is there a relationship in your church community where love has felt like a strain lately? What would it look like to lean in rather than pull back?

Pray

Pray for the kind of deep, sustaining love for your church community that Peter describes — especially for anyone it currently feels hard to love.

Peter closes this passage by tying everything together: your spiritual gift was given to you 'to serve others,' and suffering in God's will is something to entrust back to a faithful Creator. That's the full arc of the chapter — from arming yourself with Christ's attitude in verse one to actively trusting God with the outcome in verse 19. Pastor Bill's call was clear: stop going to church and start being the church. That means showing up to give, not just to receive. It means discovering your spiritual gift and deploying it in service to the people around you. Every believer has one. None are optional. When you live this way — serving from your gift, loving deeply, praying with clarity, choosing God's will over your own comfort — you are not earning anything. You are simply living in the design you were created for. Pastor Bill framed it this way: this is what God wants for you, not from you. The traction, the joy, the peace that feels so elusive when life is hard — it is found precisely here, in the counterintuitive, Christ-shaped life Peter has been describing all along. This week has been an invitation to take one step further in. Don't wait until you feel ready. Turn into the skid.

For reflection

Looking back over this week, which day's truth felt most personal to where you actually are right now — and what is one step you can take in response?

Pray

Pray for the courage to move from knowing these truths to actually living them — in your community, your service, and your daily trust in God.

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Open

Pastor Bill opened with the image of turning into a skid on an icy road — the one move that feels completely wrong but is the only move that actually works. That picture sits at the heart of everything 1 Peter 4 is asking us to do.

Discussion questions

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In 1 Peter 4:1–2, Peter calls believers to arm themselves with Christ's attitude — a willingness to suffer for doing right rather than chasing personal comfort. What do you think it actually looks like to 'arm yourself' with an attitude before a hard situation arrives?
2
Peter says in 1 Peter 4:4 that former friends may be surprised — even hostile — when someone's life starts to reflect Christ. Why do you think a changed life can provoke that kind of reaction in people who were once close?
3
In 1 Peter 4:7, Peter connects clear, disciplined prayer directly to keeping an eternal perspective. Pastor Bill described this kind of prayer as asking God for courage to turn into the skid, rather than treating prayer as a wish list. What's the difference between those two approaches in practice?
4
Peter calls deep, stretched-out love for one another 'most important of all' in 1 Peter 4:8–9, and says it 'covers a multitude of sins.' What do you think that kind of love actually does for a community — and what makes it so hard to sustain?
5
In 1 Peter 4:10–11, Peter says every believer has received a spiritual gift and is responsible for using it to serve others. Pastor Bill drew a sharp line between going to church and being the church. How might a community look different when the people in it are each showing up to contribute something rather than simply receive?
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Pastor Bill framed these two decisions — living by faith rather than feelings, and actively serving in community — as the path to the traction, joy, and peace God designed us for, not obligations God is extracting from us. What stands out to you about the way he framed it as something God wants for us rather than from us, and how might that shape the way we encourage one another toward those steps?

Pray together

Courage to turn into the skid — to choose God's will over comfort, love the people around us well, and show up as the church rather than just attending it

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