Key points
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1Solomon tried every form of pleasure — alcohol, lavish homes, wealth, control over people, and sexual indulgence — and found it all meaningless.
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2The reason pleasure never satisfies is that God planted eternity in the human heart, and only a relationship with Him can fulfill that eternal longing.
“Sex doesn't make a good marriage. A good marriage makes great sex”
“there is a longing and a thirst and a hunger in our in every one of us for the eternal. And the eternal is something longer lasting. It goes on forever. And really the longing for eternal is a longing to be in relationship with our creator”
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3When pleasure becomes the goal rather than God, we develop an 'eye problem' — self-centeredness that leads to using and controlling other people.
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4Paul warns Timothy that in the last days people will act religious but reject the power that could make them godly — describing pleasure seekers inside the church, not just outside it.
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5Solomon concludes that every pleasure is a gift from God's hand and can only be truly enjoyed through a relationship with Him and lived out His way.
“We make the gifts the purpose instead of the gift giver. We make the presence the goal over the His presence”
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6Jesus declares the two greatest commandments — love God with all of you, and love others as yourself — as equally important and inseparable, and this is what it means to please God.
“All means all and that's all, all means”
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7Going all in with God — giving, serving, loving others — feels like less but produces far more freedom, joy, and meaning than running after the world's pleasures ever could.
“I wish everyone would get rich, famous, and get to do everything they ever dreamed of doing just so they would find out that that's not the answer”
“she realized I'm trying to find purpose in pavers. I'm trying to find meaning in the design. I wanted this to mean more than it meant”
Illustration
Jim Carrey's interview statement wishing everyone could get rich and famous just to find out it is not the answer
A story from life
Pastor's wife's reaction to the finished landscaping — saying 'meh' — and her later realization that she had been trying to find purpose in the pavers rather than receiving them as a gift
A story from life
Pastor's account of moving 342 yards within the same neighborhood after in-laws contributed money for landscaping upgrades
Application
The sermon's challenge is direct: identify which of Solomon's four patterns — medicating, accumulating, subjugating, or sexual indulgence — is quietly running your life, and be honest about whether your religious activity is driven by genuine love for God or simply by what feels good. The path forward is not guilt but trust. Because Jesus gave His all for us when we were completely in the wrong, we can believe that what He asks of us — loving Him with everything, loving others selflessly, giving generously, serving the church, and pursuing purity — is not deprivation but liberation. When you stop chasing more of the temporary and go all in with God, less becomes more: less anxiety about what you own, less emptiness after the next high, and more genuine joy in the everyday gifts He already placed in your hands.





