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GREATEST OF ALL TIME | Week 4 | Sermon · Rewind

Rock Point Church

44 min

Pastor Daniel Goulding · May 20, 2024 · 4 min read · 44 min listen

The big idea

Prayer isn't about getting more from God; it's about getting more of God, and Jesus' model prayer in Matthew 6 teaches us how, not just what, to pray.

In this message

The big idea
Point 1 of 6Prayer is a desire we get to pursue, not a discipline forced on us
Point 2 of 6Pray clearly: know who you're praying to

Point 3 of 6Pray with reverence: keep His name holy
Point 4 of 6Pray with expectation and surrender: your kingdom come, your will be done
Point 5 of 6Pray with dependency: give us today our daily bread
Point 6 of 6Pray with humility: confess sin and forgive others
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Matthew 6
Matthew 5
Matthew 6:5
Matthew 6:7
Luke 11
Matthew 6:9

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Pastor Daniel Goulding · May 20, 2024 · 44 min watch · 2 min read

GREATEST OF ALL TIME | Week 4 | Sermon

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Big Idea
Key points
Application

Scripture in this message

Matthew 6
Matthew 5
Matthew 6:5
Matthew 6:7
Luke 11
Matthew 6:9

Big Idea Key points Application

Big Idea

Prayer isn't about getting more from God; it's about getting more of God, and Jesus' model prayer in Matthew 6 teaches us how, not just what, to pray.

Prayer is an invitation, not a punishment—a way to get more of God, not more from Him. Jesus gives His disciples a model, not a script, showing us to pray clearly, expectantly, humbly, and dependently to a Father who already knows what we need.

Key points

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1Prayer is a desire we get to pursue, not a discipline forced on us
Pastor Daniel contrasts his childhood experience of Catholic confession, where forgiveness felt punitive and repetitious, with Jesus' actual purpose for prayer. He points to Jesus' own prayer life—withdrawing to pray all night before miracles—as proof prayer is a privilege that unlocks power, not a religious chore.
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2Pray clearly: know who you're praying to
Working through Matthew 6:9, Pastor Daniel unpacks 'our Father in heaven' as a paradigm shift for cultural Jews who saw God as distant and unnameable. He notes Jesus used 'Father' almost 200 times and shares a story about his son proudly showing him a french fry to illustrate the simple, delighted relationship God wants with us.
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3Pray with reverence: keep His name holy
He describes the tension Jesus introduces between familiarity and supremacy—knowing God as Father while still recognizing Him as wholly other and set apart. How we see God, he argues, directly shapes how boldly or anxiously we come to Him in prayer.
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4Pray with expectation and surrender: your kingdom come, your will be done
Pastor Daniel explains that knowing our identity in Christ lets us pray boldly for heaven to invade earth, while simultaneously surrendering to God's better plan. He uses the illustration of taking baseball cards back from his son to show how we distrust God's plan and try to control areas of life He asks us to trust Him with.
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5Pray with dependency: give us today our daily bread
He notes this is easy to skip past in a culture of abundance (his own freezer full of food) but was a daily reality for the nomadic people Jesus addressed. He ties this to tithing as a reminder that everything we have was given, not earned, and that God is our true provider.
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6Pray with humility: confess sin and forgive others
Walking through 'forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us,' he explains unforgiveness is a barrier to intimacy with God, comparing holding onto it to trying to start a fire underwater. Being forgiven, he says, should produce a forgiving heart toward others.

A story from life

Preacher recounts his Catholic upbringing and childhood experiences with confession and penance

Application

Pastor Daniel frames the charge as returning to prayer as relationship, not routine—learning to pray clearly, expectantly, humbly, and dependently.

Find a private place to pray
Set aside a specific place—an office, a chair, a park bench—where you regularly go to be alone with your Father, the way Jesus modeled.
Address the sin you're hiding
Bring the sin you don't want to acknowledge before God with humility, trusting He already knows and wants to forgive rather than condemn you.
Extend forgiveness to those who hurt you
Let go of the outcome and release the burden of unforgiveness toward others, trusting God to deal with it rather than carrying it yourself.
Pray with surrendered expectation
Ask boldly for God's kingdom to show up in your circumstances while genuinely praying 'your will, not mine' instead of just treating God like a genie.
Return to God as provider
Practice dependency this week, including through tithing, as a reminder that everything you have was given by your Father and He will meet tomorrow's needs too.

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“So if you got a Bible, open up to Matthew chapter six. We're continuing in a series we started a few weeks ago looking at the Sermon on the Mount”
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“looking at the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus' greatest and longest sermon that's recorded in Matthew five, six and seven. And really Jesus introduces an entire new way”
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“Here's how Jesus starts in Matthew chapter six verse five. He says, when you pray, okay? His assumption is that you're gonna pray. It's not if you pray, it's when you pray”
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“Then your father who sees everything will reward you. Verse seven says, when you pray, don't babble on as the Gentiles do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again”
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“The other time we see the Lord's prayer introduced is in Luke chapter 11. The part that's really interesting with the disciples is they watched Jesus do some amazing stuff”
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“Here's how it begins in verse nine. Jesus says, pray like this. Okay? Like this, not this exactly. He says, our father in heaven, may your name be kept holy”
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“will say later in Matthew seven, you do that as a sinful person. How much more? Lewis says Matthew seven eleven. He says, so if you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly father give good gifts to those who ask him? He”
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“Here's how he continues in verse 10. He says, May your kingdom come soon. May your will be done on earth as it is in heaven”
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“He says in verse 11, give us today the food that we need that I'll come back to here in just a second. And then he says, and forgive us our sins as we have forgiven those who sin against us”
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“Remember he says in verse 11, give us today our daily bread. It's this idea that we would come to God every day with so much desperation that we don't even know where our next meal is coming from without him”

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Day 1

Jesus opens His teaching on prayer with a surprising move — He doesn't start with technique. He starts with motive. The religious leaders of His day prayed loudly in public, stacking up words like currency, hoping volume and visibility would earn them something. Jesus calls that out plainly: it doesn't work, and more importantly, it misses the point entirely. Pastor Daniel put it this way — prayer is something we get to do, not something we have to do. That distinction sounds small, but it changes everything. When prayer is an obligation, we endure it. When it's an invitation, we lean into it. The goal isn't logging minutes or hitting the right notes. The goal is getting more of God — more of His presence, more of His perspective, more of His peace. If prayer has felt like a chore lately, that's worth sitting with honestly. Jesus isn't scolding you for it — He's redirecting you. He's saying the door is open, the Father is already there, and you don't need to perform to walk through it. You just need to show up. That's where transformation begins — not in the words you say, but in the relationship you're building, one honest conversation at a time.

For reflection

When you think about your current prayer life, does it feel more like an obligation you push through or a conversation you look forward to — and what do you think is driving that?

Pray

Pray for honesty about your own motives in prayer, and ask God to shift your heart from duty to desire.

Day 2

Two words sit at the center of Jesus's model prayer, and they're easy to rush past: 'Our Father.' Pastor Daniel pointed out that this is nothing short of revolutionary. In one phrase, Jesus reframes the entire posture of prayer. God is not a distant force, not a cosmic judge waiting to catch you failing, and certainly not a vending machine you approach with the right combination. He is a Father — and He is yours. But Jesus doesn't stop there. He adds 'in heaven,' which keeps the intimacy from sliding into familiarity that forgets who God actually is. This Father is holy. He is all-knowing. He holds all authority. The tension in that phrase — 'our Father in heaven' — is not a contradiction. It's an invitation to come close without losing your awe. How you picture God when you close your eyes to pray matters more than almost any other factor in your prayer life. A God who is cold and transactional will produce cold, transactional prayers. A God who is a holy Father who loves you will produce something entirely different — honesty, trust, expectation, and rest. If your picture of God needs adjusting, this is the best place to start.

For reflection

When you picture God as you begin to pray, what image or feeling comes to mind first — and does it line up with 'a holy Father who loves you'?

Pray

Pray that God would correct and clarify your picture of who He is, and that that picture would shape how you come to Him.

Day 3

Jesus makes an argument from lesser to greater in Matthew 7, and it lands hard: if imperfect human parents know how to give good things to their children, how much more does your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask Him? It's a simple logical move, but the implications run deep. Pastor Daniel's description of a 'heavenly genie' is worth turning over here. A genie exists to grant wishes — the relationship is entirely transactional, and the human is in control. But a Father operates out of love and wisdom. A good father doesn't give a child everything the child asks for, because a good father sees more than the child does. That's not a limitation of the relationship — it's actually one of its greatest gifts. This is what makes 'your will, not mine' a declaration of trust rather than a resignation. It's saying: I believe You see the full picture. I believe Your plan is better than mine. I believe You are good. That kind of prayer requires you to actually believe those things about God, which is why the image of God you carry into prayer matters so much. You can't genuinely yield to a Father you don't trust.

For reflection

Is there an area of your life right now where you're asking God for something specific — and are you genuinely open to His answer being different from what you're hoping for?

Pray

Pray for the kind of trust that lets you hold your requests loosely, believing that God's wisdom is greater than your own.

Day 4

When Jesus teaches us to pray 'Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven,' He's not asking us to sit back and wait. He's asking us to orient our whole lives toward a reality that is real but not yet fully visible. This is expectant prayer — the kind that doesn't just recite a phrase but actually means it. Pastor Daniel described this as calling heaven down to earth. That's a striking image. It means you're not just hoping God might show up in your circumstances — you're asking Him to, boldly and specifically, because you believe He has the authority to do exactly that. His kingdom is not a distant concept. It is on the move, and prayer is one of the ways we participate in that movement. Praying expectantly also means releasing the grip on your own plans. 'Your will be done' is a daily surrender of the script you've written for your life. It's not passive. It's one of the more courageous things a person can say, because it means you're trusting the Father more than you're trusting yourself. That trust is built over time — in the small, consistent moments of showing up and saying it again.

For reflection

Where in your life do you most need to move from anxious planning to expectant prayer — genuinely asking God to move and trusting that He can?

Pray

Pray boldly for one specific situation where you need God's will to break through, and practice releasing your preferred outcome as you do.

Day 5

'Give us this day our daily bread.' It's one of the most ordinary lines in the Lord's Prayer, and that's exactly the point. Jesus isn't teaching us to pray for the spectacular. He's teaching us to come to God for the everyday — and to come back tomorrow and do it again. Pastor Daniel connected this to dependency. Praying for daily bread is a daily acknowledgment that God is your provider. Not your career. Not your savings account. Not your own competence. Those things are real and God often works through them — but they are not the source. He is. Every day you return to that prayer, you are rehearsing a truth that your heart is prone to forget: you are not self-sufficient, and that's not a problem. It's a design. There's actually something freeing in this posture. Dependency on a good Father is not weakness — it's wisdom. It means you're not carrying the weight of your life alone. It means you can bring the small worries, not just the big emergencies. Daily bread covers all of it: the rent, the diagnosis, the relationship, the next hard conversation. Jesus is saying: bring it. Come back tomorrow. He is not tired of hearing from you.

For reflection

What does it look like practically for you to come to God daily — not just in crisis moments, but in the ordinary rhythm of each day?

Pray

Pray specifically about one ordinary, practical need today, and practice naming God as your provider rather than your backup plan.

Day 6

Jesus connects forgiveness and prayer in a way that can feel uncomfortable, because He makes them inseparable. Confessing your own sin and extending forgiveness to others aren't add-ons to the prayer life — they are the conditions for an unobstructed one. Pastor Daniel was clear: grudges build walls. Not just between you and another person, but between you and God. This doesn't mean you have to feel warm toward someone who hurt you before you can pray. Forgiveness is rarely a feeling first — it's usually a choice that the feelings eventually follow. What Jesus is addressing is the decision to hold on, to keep the debt alive, to let the wound define the relationship. That posture closes something in us that prayer is meant to keep open. The same is true on the confession side. Coming honestly before God — naming what you've been holding back rather than skimming past it — isn't about earning your way back into His presence. You're already welcome. Confession is about removing what you've put in the way so you can actually experience that welcome. It's not a performance of guilt. It's a homecoming. If there's something or someone you've been avoiding bringing before God, today might be a good day to just bring it.

For reflection

Is there a confession you've been avoiding, or a person you've been holding at arm's length in your heart — and how might releasing either one change the way you pray?

Pray

Pray for the courage to confess honestly and for the grace to extend forgiveness in a relationship where that feels hard right now.

Day 7

Over this week, you've moved through the full arc of what Jesus laid out in His model prayer — from motive to posture, from the character of God to the condition of your own heart. None of it was a formula. All of it was an invitation to something relational. Pastor Daniel's challenge was simple and worth returning to: find a specific place and come back to it. A chair. A walk. A quiet spot in the morning before everything starts. The practice of returning to the same place matters because it turns prayer from a scattered impulse into a habit of the heart — something your life starts to organize around rather than squeeze in. You don't have to have it figured out. The disciples didn't either — they asked Jesus to teach them how to pray (Luke 11), which means even people walking with Jesus in person needed help. The goal isn't perfect prayer. The goal is consistent, honest, expectant conversation with a Father who already knows you and is not waiting for you to earn your way into the room. You're already wanted there. The week ends where it began: prayer is something you get to do. May it start to feel that way — not as a discipline you manage, but as a relationship you look forward to.

For reflection

Looking back over this week, what one shift in how you think about or practice prayer do you most want to carry forward — and what would help you actually do it?

Pray

Pray for a specific, sustainable rhythm of prayer to take root in your life — and ask God to make the desire grow as the habit forms.

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This message takes a close look at how Jesus taught His disciples to pray — not just what words to use, but what posture to bring. Before we dive in, what's one word you'd use to describe how prayer felt to you growing up?

Discussion questions

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In Matthew 6:5-8, Jesus calls out two types of prayer He wants His followers to avoid — the showy prayer of the hypocrites and the empty repetition of the Gentiles. What do those two patterns have in common, and what do they reveal about how those people understood God?
2
When Jesus opens the Lord's Prayer with 'Our Father in heaven' in Matthew 6:9, He's doing something His original audience would have found striking. What does that phrase hold in tension — and why might both parts of it matter for how we approach God?
3
The message described a tendency to treat God like a 'heavenly genie' — coming to prayer mainly to extract things. How does the shape of the Lord's Prayer, as Jesus lays it out in Matthew 6:9-13, push back against that posture?
4
Matthew 6:12-15 ties asking for forgiveness to extending it to others. What do you think Jesus is getting at there — what does that connection suggest about what prayer is actually supposed to do in a person's life?
5
Pastor Daniel challenged us to find a specific place — a chair, a park bench, an office — and return to it regularly just to be with God. What's the difference between that kind of practice and simply adding prayer to a to-do list?
6
The message framed prayer as moving from a discipline we force ourselves into toward a desire we look forward to. What kinds of things might help a community of people make that shift together — not just individually?

Pray together

A Father who already knows us and loves us — asking Him to shape our hearts so that prayer becomes less about what we want from Him and more about who He is

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