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Last Words | Week 6 · Rewind

Rock Point Church

72 min

Pastor Daniel Goulding · Apr 17, 2019 · 4 min read · 72 min listen

The big idea

Quoting the message: Even in our failure, Jesus is faithful, end quote. — He meets us in our worst moments, not to shame us, but to restore us to our calling.

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The big idea
Point 1 of 6Failure comes one small step at a time, not overnight
Point 2 of 6Unaddressed doubt leads us to follow Jesus from a distance

Point 3 of 6When we fail, we run back to what's comfortable and pull others down with us
Point 4 of 6God uses frustration to get our attention and turn us back to Him
Point 5 of 6Jesus recreates the scene of both Peter's calling and his fall to restore him
Point 6 of 6Jesus restores Peter by drawing out love, not shame, and sends him back to the same mission
Take it into your week
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Scripture in this message

John 21
John 18:15
John 18:18
John 18:25
John 21:1
John 21:4

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Pastor Daniel Goulding · Apr 17, 2019 · 72 min watch · 2 min read

Last Words | Week 6

In this message

Big Idea
Key points
Application

Scripture in this message

John 21
John 18:15
John 18:18
John 18:25
John 21:1
John 21:4

Big Idea Key points Application

Big Idea

Quoting the message: Even in our failure, Jesus is faithful, end quote. — He meets us in our worst moments, not to shame us, but to restore us to our calling.

Failure is an inevitable part of being human this side of heaven, but it does not disqualify us. Jesus meets us in our lowest moments, addresses what we've done rather than ignoring it, and restores us to the same mission He always called us to.

Key points

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1Failure comes one small step at a time, not overnight
Pastor Daniel walks through John 18, where Peter follows Jesus to the high priest's courtyard and warms himself at a charcoal fire among Jesus' enemies. He shows that Peter's denial wasn't a sudden collapse but the result of doubt taking root when following Jesus looked different than expected.
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2Unaddressed doubt leads us to follow Jesus from a distance
Drawing on the detail from Mark's Gospel that Peter followed at a distance, Pastor Daniel explains how doubt left unspoken turns into going through the motions, until Jesus becomes a concept rather than the master of our lives.
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3When we fail, we run back to what's comfortable and pull others down with us
Peter goes back to fishing, and six other disciples go with him. Pastor Daniel notes that our failures never stay contained to us alone — our influence means others get affected when we retreat into old patterns or busyness instead of facing what we've done.
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4God uses frustration to get our attention and turn us back to Him
The disciples fish all night and catch nothing until Jesus, unrecognized on the shore, tells them to try the other side. Pastor Daniel points out this mirrors Peter's original calling and shows frustration is often God's tool to make us look up instead of just trying harder.
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5Jesus recreates the scene of both Peter's calling and his fall to restore him
The charcoal fire appears only twice in the Bible — once at Peter's denial, once at his restoration. Pastor Daniel explains Jesus doesn't just dismiss sin, He deals with it directly, cooking Peter breakfast as an act of reconciliation rather than rejection.
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6Jesus restores Peter by drawing out love, not shame, and sends him back to the same mission
Jesus asks Peter three times, do you love me, matching the three denials, and each time tells him to feed my sheep. Pastor Daniel stresses Jesus doesn't make the mission easier or safer, He simply calls Peter to keep going, faithful now because he knows who Jesus is.

I think failure is an inevitable part of our process in life

A story from life

Preacher's story about trying out for the high school soccer team after boasting he could make it, and getting cut

Application

Pastor Daniel's charge is that Jesus wants to address our failure, not just so we can move past it, but so we can let it become part of how He uses us.

Stop following Jesus from a distance
If you've noticed you're just going through the motions in church, quiet times, or prayer, name it honestly instead of letting doubt quietly grow.
Bring your failure to God instead of hiding it
Don't crawl into busyness, distraction, or old comfortable patterns to avoid the pain of what you've done; let Jesus meet you there instead.
Let Jesus actually address what happened
Don't just ask God to move you past your failure without dealing with it; go back to the hard places with Him so shame loses its foothold.
Answer honestly when Jesus asks if you love Him
Like Peter, respond to Jesus' question with your own real love for Him, trusting that He is drawing out what is already in you.
Get back to the same mission
Don't wait for an easier or safer calling; pick back up feeding His sheep and following Him, resting on His faithfulness rather than your own record.

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Scripture in this message

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“if you have a bible, open up to John chapter 21. We're gonna be wrapping up our series, last words this morning”
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“So John 18 verse 15 is where we'll start. K. John 17 last week was where Jesus prayed with all of his disciples”
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“that's where we pick up reading in John 18 verse 15. It says, Simon Peter followed Jesus as did another of the disciples”
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“Verse 18, because it was cold, the household servants and the guards had made a charcoal fire. If you have a pen, highlight underline circle charcoal fire”
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“Jump down to verse 25. It says, meanwhile, as Simon Peter was standing by the fire warming himself, they asked him again”
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“And that's where we pick up in John 21. Verse one in John 21 says, later Jesus appeared again to the disciples besides the Sea Of Galilee”
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“Verse one in John 21 says, later Jesus appeared again to the disciples besides the Sea Of Galilee, and this is how it happened”
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“Verse four says, at dawn, Jesus was standing on the beach, but the disciples couldn't see who he was. We called out, fellows, have you caught any fish? No”
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“verse eight says, the other disciples stayed in the boat and they pulled the net to the shore for they were only about a 100 yards from the shore”
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“Verse 10 says, bring some of the fish that you've caught, Jesus said. So Simon Peter went aboard and dragged the net to the shore”
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“verse 12, it says, now come and have some breakfast, Jesus said. None of the disciples dared to ask him, who are you? They knew that it was the Lord”
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“One is in John 18 when when Peter is warming himself around a fire with Jesus's enemies being in a place that he should not be, failing”
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“The second time that we see a charcoal fire is in John 21 when Jesus begins to restore Peter”
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“Verse 15 says, after breakfast, Jesus said to Simon, Peter, Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these? Yes, Lord Peter replied, you know that I love you. Then feed my lambs”
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“Verse 18 says, I tell you the truth. When you were young, you were able to do as you liked. You dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go”

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Day 1

There is a moment before the fall that we rarely talk about. Peter did not wake up that night planning to deny Jesus. He started close — he followed, he got into the courtyard, he was right there. But John 18 shows us something subtle and telling: Peter was following 'at a distance.' He was still in the story, but he had backed up just enough to feel safe. That small step back is where the trouble started. Pastor Daniel pointed out that the path to failure is rarely a cliff — it is a slow drift. Unmet expectations quietly plant doubt. Doubt creates just enough discomfort that we start keeping our options open. And keeping our options open means we keep a little distance. Distance is not dramatic. It looks like going through the motions. It looks like showing up but not really bringing yourself. It looks like warming yourself by someone else's fire instead of standing in the light. The good news in this passage is that Jesus already knew where Peter was standing — physically and spiritually — and He did not cut him off. The story was not over. Wherever you find yourself today, whether fully in or quietly drifting, that is an honest and important thing to notice. The first step is simply being willing to see it.

For reflection

Where in your life right now are you following Jesus 'at a distance' — present but not fully engaged — and what first made you back up?

Pray

Pray for honesty about where distance has crept into your walk with Jesus.

Day 2

After the denial, Peter did what most of us do when we have failed at something that really matters: he went back to what he knew before Jesus showed up. 'I'm going fishing.' It sounds simple, almost innocent. But Pastor Daniel noted that this moment reveals something deep about how we handle shame — we retreat to the familiar because it feels safer than facing what we did. And notice what happened: the other disciples went with him. Our failure rarely stays contained to our own life. The people around us, the ones who look to us, will often follow us right back into the old thing. That is a sobering reality, not a reason for guilt, but a reason to take seriously the direction we are moving. What is also honest about this passage is that the fishing did not work. They caught nothing all night. Sometimes God lets the old default come up empty — not to punish, but to get our attention. Pastor Daniel described frustration as one of God's greatest tools. The empty net at dawn is not the end of the story; it is the moment the story is about to turn. If you are in an empty-net season right now, it may be worth asking whether God is trying to redirect your eyes toward the shore.

For reflection

What is the 'fishing' in your life — the familiar comfort you return to when you feel like you have failed God or others?

Pray

Pray for eyes to recognize where frustration may be God's invitation rather than just a hard circumstance.

Day 3

The disciples had been out all night with nothing to show for it, and then a figure appears on the shore and calls out to them. They do not recognize Him at first — which is its own kind of grace, because sometimes we need someone to speak into our emptiness before we realize who is speaking. 'Throw your net on the right side of the boat.' It is a small, practical instruction. And when they obeyed it, the catch was overwhelming. John recognized Jesus first. Peter, characteristically, jumped in and swam. There is something worth sitting with here: Jesus did not wait for Peter to come to Him clean, composed, or ready with a rehearsed apology. He showed up at the point of Peter's failure and spoke practically into it. The restoration did not begin with a confrontation — it began with provision. A full net. A fire already burning. Breakfast waiting. Jesus met Peter's physical, tangible moment before He addressed the deeper wound. That is the character of a Savior who knows we are human, who knows we are tired and ashamed and hungry. He does not lead with the hard conversation. He leads with presence. Whatever you are carrying into this day, it may be worth simply letting yourself be met — before you have it all figured out.

For reflection

How does it change your picture of Jesus to see Him preparing a meal for Peter before any of the hard conversations happened?

Pray

Pray for openness to receive from Jesus today rather than trying to earn your way back to Him first.

Day 4

One detail in John 21 is easy to read past, but Pastor Daniel stopped there deliberately: when the disciples got to shore, there was a charcoal fire burning. That word — charcoal fire — appears only twice in the entire Gospel of John. The other time is in John 18, where Peter stood warming himself by a charcoal fire in the courtyard of the high priest, right before each of his three denials. This was not accidental. Jesus built the same kind of fire. He recreated the setting on purpose. Not to rub Peter's nose in it, but to show something profound: He does not skip over our shame. He does not pretend the hard thing did not happen. He walks right back into it with us. That takes a kind of courage — to let Jesus lead you back to the exact scene where you fell apart. Our instinct is to hope He just moves on, that if we are busy enough and committed enough, maybe we will not have to go back there. But true restoration, Pastor Daniel made clear, requires that Jesus address what actually happened. The fire on the beach is a picture of a God who is thorough in His love, not just kind in a surface way. He is willing to do the harder, deeper work if we are willing to stay on the shore.

For reflection

Is there a 'charcoal fire' moment — a specific failure or regret — that you have been hoping God would simply overlook rather than heal?

Pray

Pray for the courage to let Jesus meet you at the specific place of your failure rather than around it.

Day 5

Three times Peter denied Jesus. Three times Jesus asked, 'Do you love Me?' That symmetry is not coincidence — it is precision. Pastor Daniel described it as one declaration of love for each denial, a deliberate and personal undoing of each moment of shame. It would have been uncomfortable. Peter was grieved by the third question, and that grief tells us he understood exactly what Jesus was doing. But notice what Jesus did not do: He did not list the failures, He did not make Peter explain himself, He did not put conditions on the restoration. He simply asked the question that mattered most and then gave Peter something to do with his love — 'Feed My lambs. Tend My sheep. Feed My sheep.' The mission did not change. Peter was not assigned a lesser role or put on probation. He was sent straight back to the work. That is a stunning picture of grace — not grace that ignores the past, but grace that deals with it honestly and then moves forward. The same question Jesus asked Peter is the one that still sits at the center of the Christian life: not 'How badly did you fail?' but 'Do you love Me?' That question is both the beginning and the ongoing heartbeat of following Jesus.

For reflection

When you honestly ask yourself whether you love Jesus, what does your daily life — your time, your attention, your choices — say in response?

Pray

Pray for a fresh, honest answer to Jesus' question: 'Do you love Me?' — and for the courage to act on that answer today.

Day 6

After the restoration, Jesus told Peter something sobering: one day, following would cost him everything. This was not a threat — it was a preparation. And then He said the same two words He said at the very beginning of their relationship: 'Follow Me.' The call had not changed. The commission had not shrunk. Peter had denied, retreated, and had now been restored, and the word he received was still simply 'Follow.' Pastor Daniel's point was clear: the game plan has not changed. The failure did not rewrite the mission. What changes after restoration is not the direction — it is the depth of understanding we bring to it. Peter now knew, in a way he could not have before, what it felt like to fall and be found. He knew what grace actually cost and what it actually does. That knowledge would shape everything — how he fed the sheep, how he led, how he told the story. Your own 'rooster crow' moment, whatever the enemy keeps replaying, is not a disqualification. In God's economy, it can become the very thing that makes your testimony real to the person sitting across from you who is convinced that they have gone too far.

For reflection

How might the failure you are most ashamed of actually become a doorway of genuine connection and ministry to someone else?

Pray

Pray for a willingness to follow Jesus forward into the mission, even while carrying the memory of where you have fallen short.

Day 7

Looking back across the whole chapter, the arc is remarkable: an empty boat, a familiar shore, a fire already burning, a meal already prepared, and a Savior who initiates every single move toward restoration. Peter did not climb back to Jesus — Jesus came to the water's edge. Peter did not talk his way back into the mission — Jesus handed it back to him. This is the through-line of the whole devotional week, and it is the heartbeat of the sermon: the grace that got us in is the same grace that carries us through. There is no point in the journey where willpower takes over and grace clocks out. The failure does not make you someone else's problem. It makes you exactly the kind of person Jesus has always been in the business of meeting on the shore. If there is a step for today, it is simply this: stop waiting until you feel clean enough, ready enough, or far enough from the last failure to approach Jesus. He is already at the fire. He has already prepared the meal. The question He is asking is the same one He asked Peter — not 'What happened?' but 'Do you love Me?' — and the invitation on the other side of your honest answer is still 'Follow Me.' That is enough for today, and it will be enough for tomorrow.

For reflection

As you look back over this week, where has Jesus been meeting you on the shore — and what is the next faithful step He is asking you to take?

Pray

Pray for the grace to receive what Jesus has already prepared, to answer His question honestly, and to follow Him into whatever comes next.

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Think about a time you watched someone make a comeback — in sports, in a story, in real life. This message is about what that kind of comeback actually looks like when Jesus is the one doing the restoring.

Discussion questions

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Pastor Daniel described a predictable path toward failure: unmet expectations plant doubt, doubt leads to following Jesus from a distance, and distance eventually leads to denial. Looking at Peter's story in John 18:15–18, where do you see that progression playing out in how Peter ends up standing at a charcoal fire denying Jesus?
2
In John 21:1–3, Peter says 'I'm going fishing,' and the others follow him back to the old life. What does that moment tell us about what failure tends to do — not just to the person who falls, but to the people around them?
3
Pastor Daniel pointed out that Jesus deliberately lit a charcoal fire on the shore — the same kind of fire Peter stood at when he denied Jesus in John 18 — rather than just skipping past it. What does that detail suggest about how Jesus handles shame, and why might that matter to people who are trying to move on from a failure?
4
In John 21:15–19, Jesus asks Peter 'Do you love me?' three times and three times sends him back to the mission. Why do you think Jesus pairs the restoration with a recommission rather than simply offering forgiveness and leaving it there?
5
Pastor Daniel said it is grace that gets us in and grace that carries us through — that we must never believe our own willpower takes over where grace leaves off. How does Peter's story in John 21 illustrate that idea?
6
Pastor Daniel invited everyone to think about what the 'rooster crow' might be — the moment of failure the enemy keeps replaying — and to consider letting Jesus meet them there rather than hoping He will skip over it. As a group, how might that posture of honest openness with Jesus shape the way we support one another when someone is struggling or hiding in shame?

Pray together

Ask God for the courage to let Jesus meet us where we actually are — not where we wish we were — and for grace to carry us back to the mission He has given us

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