Key points
1Moses brought his own plan to God instead of asking God about His plan
Pastor Brian walks through Exodus 2:11-12, where forty-year-old Moses sees an Egyptian beating a Hebrew and, rightly angered by the injustice, takes matters into his own hands and kills the Egyptian. He notes Moses acted on his own timing, in his own strength, with a misunderstood purpose, and ended up owning the outcome — he brought his plan to God rather than asking God's thoughts on it.
2Four things happen when we bring our own plan to God: we decide the timing, provide the strength, declare the purpose, and own the victory
Pastor Brian unpacks each of these from Moses's story and parallels them to his own life at age 24, when he tried to start a college ministry into a church plant on his own timeline and in his own strength. He says this pattern is deadly because it leaves no room for God in the equation.
3Living by our own plan leads to fear, isolation, and failure, just like it did for Moses
Reading Exodus 2:13-15, Pastor Brian shows how Moses's plan unraveled — his own people rejected his authority, Pharaoh sought to kill him, and he fled in fear to Midian. He says this is where self-made plans inevitably lead: scared, alone, isolated, filled with fear, because our timing, strength, purpose, and victory can't be trusted.
4A pastor's hard, honest words became the next step Pastor Brian didn't want but needed
He recounts being asked, twice, 'Do you trust me?' — first when his pastor told him to set aside the college ministry and church-planting dream for youth ministry, and later when he was told to pull back his engagement to Melinda because he was steamrolling her. Both felt like steps backward, but he says he now sees they were preparation, not punishment.
Your strength will betray you
how many of us, if we're being honest today, are holding our plans with tightly gripped fists
5Forty years later, God met Moses at the burning bush with a step he never could have planned
In Exodus 3, an 80-year-old Moses, now humbled and reshaped by decades of shepherding, encounters God in the burning bush. Pastor Brian points out that all of Moses's early strength, timing, and purpose had been stripped away, and only then does God say 'take a step.'
Sometimes the step God has for you is not easy
6When we take God's next step instead of our own plan, He reveals the timing, becomes our strength, repurposes our weakness, and becomes the victory
Pastor Brian contrasts this with the earlier four deadly moves: God's timing for Moses at 80 was exactly right, and God's promise 'I will be with you' becomes the pattern fulfilled in Jesus's words in Matthew 28. He says the best leaders are broken and weak people who trust in Jesus rather than their own competence.
7Jesus's promise to be with us to the end of the age is what makes every step possible
Connecting Exodus 3:12 to Matthew 28:18-20, Pastor Brian shows that the same 'I will be with you' that carried Moses is the same presence Jesus promises His disciples. He testifies that this presence is what carried him through eight years of unwanted youth ministry and now through thirteen years of church planting.
It's a dangerous thing to think you can move through life on your own in your own strength
When you go to God and you say, Who am I that I should go? Watch what he'll do
A story from life
Brian standing outside Cornerstone in 2010 doubting God could use him, contrasted with Flatiron's current fruit
A story from life
Brian's 2010 story: pastor challenges him to leave college ministry, enter youth ministry, and delay marriage in order to grow before planting
Application
Pastor Brian's charge is to stop clenching your plan and open your hands to whatever next step God actually gives.
Open your clenched fist over your plan
If you've been holding tightly to your own plan for your life, be honest about it today and be willing to let God open your hands rather than asking Him to simply bless what you've already decided.
Ask God what's in your hand
Like Moses with his shepherd's staff, bring what you already have and who you already are to God and let Him repurpose it for the step He's calling you to take next.
Trust His timing over your own
If things aren't moving on your timeline, consider that God may be preparing you rather than sidelining you, the way He used forty years of shepherding to prepare Moses.
Take a concrete next step toward Flatiron if God is tugging
Come to the Sunday evening gathering at Jack Barnes Elementary at 5:00 tonight, or reach out to the team on stage, to explore praying for, giving to, or joining Flatiron Church for a season or for good.
Take it into your week
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