Key points
1The world tells us peace is found in isolation, but that's exactly what the enemy wants.
Pastor Jeff tells the story of a medical mission trip to Tanzania that spiraled into chaos, leaving him so overwhelmed that he walked toward the wilderness wondering what would happen if he just kept walking and never came back. He connects that impulse to a wider human instinct to believe peace is only found away from people, and ties it to God's statement in the garden that it is not good for man to be alone.
But this is exactly what the enemy wants from us
2The earliest church models what choosing 'we over me' looks like.
Pastor Jeff walks through the backstory of Acts 2, from Jesus' resurrection and ascension to the Holy Spirit filling the believers at Pentecost, including Peter's joke that they weren't drunk because it was only 9 AM. He points out that after 3,000 people came to faith, they didn't retreat into a private 'me and Jesus' faith but devoted themselves to a shared life together.
3Real community is devoted, not casually committed, and it happens by design, not by default.
He contrasts the early church's devotion to teaching, fellowship, meals, and prayer with a checklist faith that shows up once a week and walks back into isolation. He argues that the kind of community people long for only comes when they take an intentional step forward.
4We choose truth over lies by being known.
Pastor Jeff names the lies people carry in isolation—failure as a parent, worthlessness after divorce, hopelessness in addiction, anger as identity—and says biblical community is where those lies get replaced with the truth of who we are in Christ. He shares conversations with hurting church members who admit they aren't in a life group or serving team, which is why no one showed up for them.
It takes us actually taking that step forward and choosing we over me, because when we do that, I believe that God changes our lives with the people that He's placed in our lives
5We choose confession over perfection because we are accepted, not just at our best but at our worst.
He unpacks the word fellowship as an intimate sharing of oneself, not surface-level small talk, and points to James 5:16 on confessing sins to each other for healing. He tells the story of a senior guy in his group who was terrified to confess a struggle but found acceptance and peace instead of judgment.
A story from life
A senior high school student shares with Pastor Jeff how confessing a hidden struggle to his small group brought acceptance and peace rather than judgment.
6We choose prayer over performance because we are supported.
Pastor Jeff warns against making faith a show—offering a hollow 'I'll pray for you' while walking away—and calls people to actually carry each other's burdens through prayer, using Galatians 6:2-3 and the image of being guardrails, not saviors, in someone's life.
If you think you're too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself
We're not too important to help the people in our lives
you're not called to be someone's savior, you're called to point them to the savior
7We choose growth through sharpening because we are developed by others.
He compares this to a basketball coach who stops correcting a player he's given up on, and argues real love speaks truth even when it's uncomfortable. He closes with the story of his father's stroke and a couple from their community who showed up with meals, a private hospital room, and even a van, as a living picture of what this kind of community produces.
I challenge you this week, commit to the people in your lives and watch how God uses them to mold and shape you into his image
A story from life
Pastor Jeff describes his family's experience when his father had a stroke, and how a couple from their biblical community provided a hospital room, meals, and a van for therapy.
A story from life
Pastor Jeff recounts a medical mission trip to Tanzania where chaos in the pharmacy led him to consider walking away into the wilderness for peace.
Application
Pastor Jeff's challenge is to take a real step out of isolation into biblical community by asking how you're doing at being known, accepted, supported, and developed.
Get into a life group
If you've never been part of a life group, sign up today through the next steps tab at Rock Point before you leave the building.
Evaluate your group with these four questions
If you're already in a life group, meet this week and ask together how you're doing at being known, accepted, supported, and developed, and pick one to work on.
Bring your struggles into the light
Stop carrying lies and habits in isolation; open up to trusted people so they can remind you of the truth of who you are in Christ.
Actually pray for people, don't just say it
When someone shares a struggle, follow through and truly carry their burden in prayer rather than offering an empty I'll pray for you.
Speak truth in love to sharpen others
Care enough about people to tell them what they need to hear, not just what they want to hear, so they grow more like Jesus.
Take it into your week
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